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Disclaimer: None of the information in this section is designed to be legal advice. The North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence shall not be held liable for any improper or incorrect use of the information described and/or contained herein and assumes no responsibility for anyone's use of the information. Please contact an attorney for legal assistance. For further disclaimers please refer to the Legal Notices, Disclaimers and Terms of Use section of our website.

Domestic Violence Protective Orders (DVPO):

What is a Domestic Violence Protective Order (also known as a 50-B or a restraining order)?


A Domestic Violence Protective Order is a civil document signed by a judge which states that the abuser is not permitted to make contact with the plaintiff (person who filed the complaint). Contact includes coming onto the property of the plaintiff, at their workplace, school, etc., as well as phone calls, emails or sending messages via other people.

If the abuser violates any provision of the order, the plaintiff can call the police and have the abuser arrested. If the police will not arrest the abuser, the plaintiff can go to the county's magistrate's office and take out a warrant against the abuser for violating the order.

See Chapter 50B.

Can I get a Domestic Violence Protective Order in North Carolina?

Yes, if you are living or have lived with your partner in the past. While people in heterosexual relationships can get a DVPO regardless if they are living together or in a dating relationship, same-sex couples must be living together or have lived together in the past to get the same protection.

What is the difference between a Domestic Violence Protective Order and a criminal charge?

A DVPO is a civil order. It differs from criminal actions because no one is arrested once the order has been issued unless the perpetrator violates the order.

What other things can a Domestic Violence Protective Order do?

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Evict the abuser from the home that the couple shares.

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Prohibit the abuser from possessing and purchasing a firearm.

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Revoke the abuser's concealed handgun permit if s/he has one.

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Order the abuser to attend a batterer's treatment program.

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Grant temporary custody of minor children to the victim.

How do I obtain a Domestic Violence Protective Order?

The first step in this process is filling out the paperwork. You can obtain paperwork three different ways.


1. Print out the forms provided in the links below. Be sure to print all of the forms linked below. It is very important to present to the court all of the information and forms required.

2. Go to your local courthouse. Find the clerk of civil court. They should have the packets ready to give you when you ask for it.

3. Visit your local Domestic Violence Shelter and ask for the packet. The shelter should also be able to assist you in filling out the forms. *Before you do this, check to see how LGBT-friendly your county's Domestic Violence Shelter is.

Domestic Violence Protective Order Forms:

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AOC-CV-303 - Complaint And Motion For Domestic Violence Protective Order

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AOC-CV-303 I - Instructions For Domestic Violence Forms

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AOC-CV-304 - Ex Parte Domestic Violence Protective Order

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AOC-CV-305 - Notice Of Hearing On Domestic Violence Protective Order

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AOC-CV-306 - Domestic Violence Protective Order

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AOC-CV-312 - Identifying Information About Defendant Domestic Violence Action

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AOC-CV-313 - Motion To Renew Or Set Aside Domestic Violence Protective Order Notice Of Hearing

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AOC-CV-314 - Order Renewing Domestic Violence Protective Order

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AOC-CV-317 - Civil Summons Domestic Violence

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AOC-CV-609 - Affidavit As To Status Of Minor Child

Filling out the Paperwork

Often it can be overwhelming to fill out paperwork when you see how many pages there are. However, when you take a closer look, many pages only require that you fill out a few lines: your county, your name and address, and your partner's name and address.

Here are a few tips for filling out the papers:

1. Don't fill out sections labeled "Findings" or "Conclusions."

2. If you are unsure if you should fill out a section, you can ask the clerk of court if you should complete the section.

3. When the clerk files the paperwork, ask her/him if you completed the paperwork correctly.

4. Be as specific as possible. Include times and dates if possible.

Filing a Domestic Violence Protective Order

You MUST file the DVPO in the county where you reside.  Take the completed paperwork to the clerk of court. The clerk will file the necessary papers and give them back to you. The clerk will the "swear you in" and ask you if all the information provided is correct. Then the clerk will have you sign a statement verifying this. At this time, the clerk will send you to a Judge.

Going Before the Judge

This will be the first of two hearings. The first hearing is usually simple and quick. Although each Judge may have some minor differences on how they run their courtroom, the basic procedure is the same. You will enter the courtroom and hand the bailiff your paperwork. The bailiff will give the file to the Judge. Some judges will want you to speak with them at that time. If they do not indicate this, sit down in the courtroom and wait for the Judge to call your name.

When the Judge calls your case, s/he will review all the forms and make sure everything is completed correctly. The Judge may ask you a few questions and will decide whether or not to grant you a Temporary Restraining Order (Ex Parte Domestic Violence Protective Order). If the Judge grants the temporary order, s/he will set a court date for the Permanent Restraining Order. This second hearing (sometimes referred to as the ten day hearing)  is usually between one week to ten days later. The Judge may also explain how to use the order and how to go about getting the abuser served with the hearing summons. Usually you will take the specified papers to the Sheriff's Department where a deputy will serve the abuser.

What is the difference between an Ex Parte DVPO and a Permanent DVPO?

The Ex Parte grants you temporary protection from your abuser until a permanent order can be issued. The Ex Parte lasts for ten days.

The Hearing for the Permanent DVPO:

This will be the most difficult portion of the process. If your local Domestic Violence Shelter has a Court Advocate, it may be helpful to have her/his support and knowledge. Be prepared to see you partner at the proceeding. Legally they have the right to defend themselves from the accusations.

When the Judge calls your case, you will be expected to answer questions. The Judge will also ask your partner questions pertaining to the complaint. If the Judge grants a Permanent Order, the DVPO may be issued for one year. NC law allows the DVPO to be renewed when the order expires.  You may renew your DVPO by filing a motion before it expires.

Do I need a lawyer?

Generally you will not need a lawyer. However if your abuser has a lawyer, you should obtain one as well. If you don't find out that your abuser has a lawyer until the day of the hearing, you can ask the Judge for a continuance in order for you to hire a lawyer.

After you obtain your DVPO:

Make several copies of the order and keep a copy with you at all times.

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At your place of employment.

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In your home

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In your car.

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At all of your friends' and family's homes.

Criminal Process

North Carolina’s criminal code covers many acts of violence that commonly occur in abusive relationships; however, most of the laws are not based on whether or not people are in a relationship. These laws would apply equally to strangers except domestic criminal trespass and violation of a domestic violence protective order. This is part of what makes it hard to track domestic violence crimes in North Carolina. The following are common crimes that abusers commit against their intimate partners. They are all misdemeanor crimes. The maximum punishment is 150 days in jail with the highest record level. Stalking and violation of a DVPO can be elevated to felonies if certain criteria are met.
 
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Assault on a Female

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Communicating Threats

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Assault by Pointing a Gun

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Domestic Criminal Trespass

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Harassing Phone Calls

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Injury to Pregnant Woman

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Injury to Personal Property

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Assault Inflicting Serious Injury

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Assault with a Deadly Weapon

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Stalking

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Interference with Emergency Communication

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Violation of a Protective Order

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Assault in the Presence of a Child

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Simple Assault

Other common crimes committed by abusers are rape and sexual assault. These offenses are felony crimes.

Misdemeanor criminal offenses are heard in district court in front of a judge. There is no jury. The defendant is entitled to an attorney. An assistant district attorney represents the state. Only the state can dismiss the charges. A victim of domestic violence cannot dismiss charges. A defendant can appeal if found guilty and the case will go before a jury in superior court.

Disclaimer: None of the information in this section is designed to be legal advice. The North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence shall not be held liable for any improper or incorrect use of the information described and/or contained herein and assumes no responsibility for anyone's use of the information.  Please contact an attorney for legal assistance.  For further disclaimers please refer to the Legal Notices, Disclaimers and Terms of Use section of our website.

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